Regular readers of Fatherhood Matters will know that I am a regular viewer of the NBC show, Parenthood. Learning parenting skills for an Aspergers child is a passion for me and the weekly Braverman family struggles resonate each week.
A quote tonight from Max Braverman (son who has Aspergers) regarding why he was reluctant to play during gym class was "I always get picked last!"
I worry about that for my son, D. But when I was younger, I was exactly the opposite - NEVER picked last. I struggle to relate with my son's social struggles and that bothers me. How can I help him?
This week he made a first step to call a classmate and invite him over for a play date. The excitement on awaiting the call back and confirmation of a date (THIS SUNDAY) was palpable for D. I am happy and very proud of my son.
Now I wait. I am extremely nervous for him on Sunday. I pray that it goes well. I will be the chaperone (I think a movie and some pizza are on the agenda). I was emotional watching the play date for Max Braverman on TV. I can't imagine how I will contain myself on Sunday.
I can't imagine how hard it is for him to make a phone call.
I can't imagine how hard it is for him to socialize at school.
I can't imagine how hard it is for him to make friends.
I can't imagine feeling like I am always picked last.
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
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